Listen up...it's a bit of free advice that I hardly give anyone when it comes to women.
Sometimes being you doesn't cut it. You might offend them with your rudeness or vulgarity or looks or dress code. Even your behavior.
Sometimes being the nice guy doesn't cut it. You get used, taken advantage of, only called on because you will be there.
Bottom line, when you cant be you or something else. Dont be any. Sound confusing doesnt it? What I mean is just dont care about it. Live your life as you see fit. Live for you, spend money on you and no one else. Indulge on you.
Don't go looking for it, makes you look desperate. If you dont care, at some point, fate just might care. Never push, walk your line. Women can get you all twisted up inside anyways. At some point, fate might step in and provide you with one and just happens to fall into your lap and they will like you for you. Because it doesnt matter the age. Ive known a few women 30+ that acted like real shits. Then there were the young ones that were never serious and sometimes vice versa. Even now there are still folks in your age range that will never grow up. They will sit and pout because they dont get attention. Good. Dont give them attention. Focus your attention on you. When the woman comes along, trust me, you will know it because it will just click.
There are some women that might read this and say, "Gosh, what a prick" My response is, "Hi, have you met me?" because I dont care what others think of me. Because it doesnt matter what a man does for his woman, there is always something more that he could be doing for her. Very rarely will you find a woman that will be self sufficient. But, when you do, and she loves you for who you are no matter what, then count you blessings.
Til then, do for you. Dont rush, dont push for it because it will always be out of your reach. Dont lie to yourself, dont "settle", dont sell yourself short. Dont be fucking arrogant either. That wont work if you are wanting a companion. Me, Im arrogant because I have been alone and I like being alone. You dont need the headaches just yet. Ive been there and done that. I know how the youth think, "He dont know anything about me" Oh but I do. I read people very well and very very rarely am I wrong.
Dont stress, be cool and dont put so much feelings into crap like this. Life sux and then you go have a coke and a smile. Matter of fact, thats what Im going to do.
Later.
Raz
