I aint a doc but I suppose that all these kids walking about at the age of 2 and 3 with pacifiers all have messed up teeth?
I dont think so. Simply because those are baby teeth. They fall out. And are replaced. Few more times. Before their adult teeth are set.
You are J's mom, not the Doctor. The doctor makes a suggestion as to what they feel might be protocol, but isnt always the go ahead. But, tell you what, take away the pacifier. When that boy starts wailing, and you get a head ache, let's see how fast you pop that pacifier back in his mouth. LOL.
Raz