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about kadi
« on: October 25, 2005, 06:46:47 PM »
the time has come for her to let her F/family know what is going on in her life, she has been having tests on a lump in her neck, well she got the results today and it is a tumor, they think it could be benine but they not sure, they have given me two choices, to either wait another 6 months and have another scan, taking the risk that if it is maligament it will spread, or to have the lump cut out and risk having no feeling in the left side of her face, they have given her 2 weeks to make the choice, my F/family kadi needs you all now more then she has ever done, she has a lot of thinking to do and somd hard choices to make, she loves you all xxxxxxxxxx
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Re: about kadi
« Reply #1 on: October 25, 2005, 07:23:33 PM »
oh kadi.  I am sorry to read that.  it is sad news.  but atleast the docs think it is benine.  I just hope it stays that way.  I honestly don't know what I would do if I was put in that spot.  but keep in mind that no matter what I am here for you*gives you a big hug*

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Re: about kadi
« Reply #2 on: October 25, 2005, 08:01:03 PM »
What about a 3rd option -- a biopsy to test for malignancy which removes only a small portion of the lump for a sample?  Is that possible?

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Re: about kadi
« Reply #3 on: October 25, 2005, 09:41:30 PM »
If I had to choose, I would choose the risk of not feeling my face...
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Re: about kadi
« Reply #4 on: October 26, 2005, 01:12:30 AM »
*holds kadi close*

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Re: about kadi
« Reply #5 on: October 26, 2005, 04:20:38 AM »
Thank Y/you A/all

dee that would still mean risking loseing feeling in left side of face cos of where the lump is, ~sighs~
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Re: about kadi
« Reply #6 on: October 26, 2005, 06:29:13 AM »
 :'(

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Re: about kadi
« Reply #7 on: October 26, 2005, 10:59:29 AM »
*hugs* I remember how terrified I was when they thought the auto-immune disease in my lungs could possibly be a lymphoma.... I am praying for you hun... I know it's not an easy decision.

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Re: about kadi
« Reply #8 on: October 27, 2005, 08:09:07 AM »
Best wishes for you kadi. *tight hugs*  :-*
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Re: about kadi
« Reply #9 on: October 27, 2005, 01:34:56 PM »
so sorry hun.. i wish i could be there to wait an talk with the docs.. cause ya know i would bite them hard if they tried to hurt you ..... what ever you decide will be the right one for you..

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Re: about kadi
« Reply #10 on: October 27, 2005, 02:18:57 PM »
~hugs ya tight~
will add a few extra prayers for ya hon

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Re: about kadi
« Reply #11 on: October 27, 2005, 02:19:54 PM »
Then I would choose my face over my life, sweety... Half a smile is better than none.... *tight hugs*

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Re: about kadi
« Reply #12 on: November 02, 2005, 04:24:10 PM »
after taking to her family she has decided to have the op, she will be telling the hospital next week when she is back with the doctor


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Re: about kadi
« Reply #13 on: November 03, 2005, 02:28:04 AM »
kadi, I am thinking of you and sending My hugs and prayers to you   ~tight hugs~

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Re: about kadi
« Reply #14 on: November 03, 2005, 02:41:46 PM »
~*Hugs*~.. you will be in my thoughts and prays hon