Aye, True, I understand what you are saying.
I guess the answer is to just be yourself, to everyone. If people who visit don't want to stay, then, it is just as well. I like to think those that have stayed for a week or so and then left, learned about themselves, and hopefully went back to a home that they weren't sure of, or moved on to a home where they finally felt welcome. That seems to be the nature of r/p rooms, I am learning. People check things out, and I, for one, do not want to turn Medi into what I think will be a 'popular' character, just to try to attract and keep members. Medi will be what she is, as I designed her and r/p her, she will change as I experience more r/p, and read more of the JN novels. But, she will will remain what she is, and will eagerly greet newcomers, and see if they can join our family and add their complexity to the home we are building. I will also not try to push them into a role that I would like them to fill...but will let them carve out their own unique offering.
