For this man is a mentor, a grandfather and a father to so many in there hearts and i am one of those people... to me that is where the post went just far enough.. in my mind you questioned my loyalty to him and all that he does.. and i take offense to that..
Good. Take offense. You should because the Ubar, may not say it, but is also offended and perhaps even hurt.
If he is a mentor and teacher that you try to learn from and enjoy the fun rp with...where were you to return that favor to him, giving him a moment of fun?
I dont think any of you realize what he did, truly, and if you do, then ignore the rest of this.
The first 2 to 3 weeks was for all of us to have fun and the Ubar, was waiting for the last week to really rp himself in the event to let loose and have fun with all of us...
He ended up in the room by himself, interacting with mainly one person.
Loyalty and respect, love and fun...*shakes my head*...and many say they have conversations with this man they call the Ubar, or their father figure. Do you truly think of his needs? What fun he gets to have or share in? This event is not just for us but for him as well and yet how many avoided interaction with his characters? Or confrontations with him under the presumptions he would kick your ass or collar you or what have you? I know it cannot be for fear...seriously...fear over the loss of a TRC?
I have pulled my punches...I have pulled what I wanted to really say. Trying to be nice...yet there is still these posts about what is offended or some such nonsense.
How about this? Take your head out of your ass and quit thinking about what offends YOU or upsets YOU and think about the Ubar. Did you bother to ask his point of view or talk to him recently? Sure, he might put on a show and say all is well, but still the Thank yous and the apologies goes a long way.
Are you offended because of what I said or perhaps it is the thought that somewhere deep down, you feel guilt? And you have a need to justify your guilt? I did not question anyone's loyalty or respect for the Ubar, no where did I say that. If you bring it up, that is on you.
What I did say is many fail to realize what he does for OUR indulgence and what have we done for HIS?
So, to Wapike, directly...reread what I wrote...carefully this time...and if you are going to take alot of thought into a reply, make sure you understand first and foremost, what the message was and the intention behind it.
I dont post any of this without actual firsthand knowledge of what is going on. I post this as someone that is concerned for the health and happiness of a trusted friend, a valued friend. A friend that I know cares more for others than himself.
It is high time that same effort is returned to him by those he has given himself to.
Raz