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Gorean Roleplay => Tuchuk Wagon Camp => MTC OOC => Topic started by: Shadow duck on September 01, 2018, 08:07:08 PM
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Just an update, hubby is back in the hospital yes the cancer has returned, right now he has received four units of blood, and is currently having a blockage sucked out from the small bowel they still believe he may have a internal bleed somewhere so he is being monitored. I am keeping a close eye on everything. Thank you for all the prayers and good thoughts. Take care all I miss you all very much.
chanz
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sorry to hear this sis... prayer goes to you and your family..... if you need to too talk you know that we are here love you
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Hang in there BOTH of you!!!!!
Kneemail continues.
You are missed duckie!!!!!
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He is home again, and I am very thankful for ducky's sake.
I keep an eye on her when I can, and as always, keep the prayers going for the both of them.
I may not always say much, chanz, but you always have my prayers and good thoughts and love.
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...I am sending prayers and healing thoughts to you and yours, ducky one. *hugs*
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Thank you for the update, ducky-sis, take care of yourself, too. i know you do a lot for your hubby, but you always have to take care of you to be able to care for him. you have my love, thoughts, and prayers and lots of hugs whenever you may need them.
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Just a update..it hasn't been told to the rt family yet but I'm sharing this here.Hubby has been given six months or less , we are now having to deal with palative care . We are going to take some time together and maybe take a small trip so don't worry if you don't hear from me for awhile as long as I can I will always find away back home. ( right now I'm praying for a miracle) hugs and lubs to you all
chanz ( aka Susan)
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My thoughts are prayers are with you chanz, your husband, and family. Peace and Love to you.
Hippie
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I am so sorry to hear this twin.... know that i love you and i will be sending prayers as well as NS will... you know how to get ahold of me.. gives you big hugs
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chanz, I know we had not met, but I am and will continue to send prayers for you and your family. If you ever need to talk or have another shoulder to lean n, feel free to email me anytime.
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Just a update..it hasn't been told to the rt family yet but I'm sharing this here.Hubby has been given six months or less , we are now having to deal with palative care . We are going to take some time together and maybe take a small trip so don't worry if you don't hear from me for awhile as long as I can I will always find away back home. ( right now I'm praying for a miracle) hugs and lubs to you all
chanz ( aka Susan)
Kneemail continues. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. Docs are not always right. If they were, I would have been dead 29 years ago. Hang in there!!!!!
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spend all the time you can with your husband, take pictures, videos, etc, and have him, if he's able, write down anything and everything he wants to leave for family/ friends (words of advice, etc). It's hard, i wish we'd done that with my Dad and i did take lots of pictures, but never recorded anything, and i wish so much i had. When we found out about his brain tumor, on my birthday in 2011 (October 4), we didn't have a lot of time, but the time we had, we made sure it was good for him...and all of us. He passed 4 months later.
you'll both remain in my prayers, and stay positive, to keep him that way, too. Hugs to you both.
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sending lots of prayers and love your way.
Do what siren says, she is right about making those memories and recording others.
Loves ya, duck
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Hubby had surgery at 1:30 in the am this morning they brought him to recovery at 7:25 am this morning. They did a exploring around his belly opened some adhesings and then put in a j tube to be used for nowadays a drain for any more blockages then a possible feeding tube later if needed. Upon their exploration it has been discovered that things have progressed further moving quickly into other organs and surrounding areas we are still doing our best to be strong. I'm exhausted and I know I worry him being so tired but I keep trying to stay positive as much as I can. Anyway that's the latest I'm just going to post here and update you all as I can. Hugs and lubs
chanz(aka Susan)
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...Sending you Hugs and Kneemail, for you, and yours, hun. Know that all of us are sending you and yours prayers. I will dedicate my evening Rosary to your husband, and you.
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thinking of you chain will light a candle for you both xxxx
kadi
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I want to give up...I want to take his place....
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Hang in there Duckie.. I know it is hard to do.. I have been there..stay strong for Him...and He would not want you to go through this for him..,,, it is easier to give up.. but if you do that then he will also give up...just be with him all you can.. share the love that you have for the both of you...if you need to talk you know how to get ahold of Us.,,, I love you so much Duckie... gives you a big hugs .. and holds you tight...I am sorry that I can not be there with you in this time...the best i can do it to send hugs and loveings and prayers your way... just remember you are NOT alone in this.. Tuchuk is here with you.. and so is your family and friends... lean on us.. we do not mind a bit... continues to hug and holds you close...
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Keeps the kneemail going.
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...*Hugs chanz close*...Aye, it be hard, so hard, hun. Be strong, there are a lot of Prayers and Kneemail going out to you and yours, your Family here, is standing with you.
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Thank you so much for all of your prayers and support tonight we made the decision to end his pain and suffering. I should say he made the decision to do this I agreed with him as he has suffered so much and he could not do anything normal ever again with all the tubes and wires attached to him. They started the infusion at 10pm our time tonight he went to sleep he will not be waking up again till he is on the other side riding with his warrior brothers and sharing the pipes making ready to battle. Then feasting in celebration. I thank you all from the bottom of my heart. I am in his hospital room now waiting . chanz...(Susan)
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...I am sitting beside you, Susan...in Spirit and in Prayer.
Izee' (Pauline)
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He passed to the other side at 1:12 pm my time.
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I'm so sorry, hon.
My prayers are with you and your family.
NS / Pat
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i'm so so sorry for your loss, i'd been hoping and praying, but i do understand your decisions. It's hard, but i'm sure he is much happier than he was here in the condition he was in. (went through similar with my Dad and his cancer, it's a hard decision, but we do what's right for them, and what they want). i'm trying hard not to cry, but please know they are tears of happiness for the new life he now has, and sadness for you and what you'll experience. If you ever need to talk, please, just ask, and i'll make time. *hugs lots, if i can*
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Prayers and hugs.. i am here if you need someone.. or i should say that we are here for you... I am so sorry for your loss.. but He is with God.. and his brothers.. not hurting anymore... I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
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My condolences on such a heavy loss my duckie. Simple words can not convey the feelings.
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...Sending you more prayers...hun...
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Love and prayers to you, duckie. My deepest condolences for you and yours.
Like Rags said, there aren't enough words enough to tell you how much you are loved.
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Kneemail going out for you in this time of sadness.
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There really aren't words for a time like this, ducky, but just know that there's lots of prayers going up for you and your family right now. I'm so deeply sorry for your loss; if there's ever anything I can do for you, you have only to ask.
--Arlon