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Title: about kadi
Post by: kadi{MTC} on October 25, 2005, 06:46:47 PM

the time has come for her to let her F/family know what is going on in her life, she has been having tests on a lump in her neck, well she got the results today and it is a tumor, they think it could be benine but they not sure, they have given me two choices, to either wait another 6 months and have another scan, taking the risk that if it is maligament it will spread, or to have the lump cut out and risk having no feeling in the left side of her face, they have given her 2 weeks to make the choice, my F/family kadi needs you all now more then she has ever done, she has a lot of thinking to do and somd hard choices to make, she loves you all xxxxxxxxxx

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: Lady Snickers on October 25, 2005, 07:23:33 PM

oh kadi.  I am sorry to read that.  it is sad news.  but atleast the docs think it is benine.  I just hope it stays that way.  I honestly don't know what I would do if I was put in that spot.  but keep in mind that no matter what I am here for you*gives you a big hug*

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: Thalia on October 25, 2005, 08:01:03 PM

What about a 3rd option -- a biopsy to test for malignancy which removes only a small portion of the lump for a sample?  Is that possible?

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: prism {*RgR*1*} on October 25, 2005, 09:41:30 PM

If I had to choose, I would choose the risk of not feeling my face...

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: RAGNAR on October 26, 2005, 01:12:30 AM

*holds kadi close*

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: kadi{MTC} on October 26, 2005, 04:20:38 AM

Thank Y/you A/all

dee that would still mean risking loseing feeling in left side of face cos of where the lump is, ~sighs~

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: cat{MTC} on October 26, 2005, 06:29:13 AM

 :'(

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: Kitya on October 26, 2005, 10:59:29 AM

*hugs* I remember how terrified I was when they thought the auto-immune disease in my lungs could possibly be a lymphoma.... I am praying for you hun... I know it's not an easy decision.

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: Claudia on October 27, 2005, 08:09:07 AM

Best wishes for you kadi. *tight hugs*  :-*

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: Shadow duck on October 27, 2005, 01:34:56 PM

so sorry hun.. i wish i could be there to wait an talk with the docs.. cause ya know i would bite them hard if they tried to hurt you ..... what ever you decide will be the right one for you..

**gonna go an lite an extra candle tonite for ya an pray to the Goddess to protect ya **...

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: familure{TD} on October 27, 2005, 02:18:57 PM

~hugs ya tight~
will add a few extra prayers for ya hon

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: Thalia on October 27, 2005, 02:19:54 PM

Then I would choose my face over my life, sweety... Half a smile is better than none.... *tight hugs*

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: kadi{MTC} on November 02, 2005, 04:24:10 PM

after taking to her family she has decided to have the op, she will be telling the hospital next week when she is back with the doctor


she loves Y/you A/all

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: Giselle on November 03, 2005, 02:28:04 AM

kadi, I am thinking of you and sending My hugs and prayers to you   ~tight hugs~

Giselle

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: katina on November 03, 2005, 02:41:46 PM

~*Hugs*~.. you will be in my thoughts and prays hon

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: Thalia on November 05, 2005, 10:18:10 AM

That takes a lot of courage, and I am proud of you. *hugs*

Title: Re: about kadi
Post by: kadi{MTC} on November 08, 2005, 05:13:11 PM

she has seen the doctor again today and he agreed with kadi about having the op, it will be done within the next 2-4 weeks

she thanks her family for all their prays and well wishes, she loves you all