Gorean Roleplay => Tuchuk Wagon Camp => MTC OOC => Topic started by: Sahara on May 24, 2007, 11:04:33 AM
Title: kiah
Post by: Sahara on May 24, 2007, 11:04:33 AM
This was found in the room this morning...
(08:38:42 )
kiah {MTC} ***** mat-restricted : has been sighted...
(08:45:57 )
kiah {MTC} ***** mat-restricted : might someone please post this to the board....that the typist behind kiah will not be roleplaying anymore...thank you...her
(08:46:08 )
kiah {MTC} ***** mat-restricted : leaves...
Someone forget to give kiah the addie to the boards?
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: kadi{MTC} on May 24, 2007, 11:42:46 AM
blinks
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Thalia on May 24, 2007, 11:52:35 AM
No - kiah has posted to the boards several times, her most recent being a commentary on whether or not the bitsy role-play was derrogatory toward obese people. However, I think she may have deleted her board profile. I can no longer find her posts.
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Jay on May 24, 2007, 12:02:26 PM
hrm... oh well, so be it.
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Amber on May 24, 2007, 12:15:24 PM
she's here, she's not here, she's here, she's not here.. uhmmm.. Yeah
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Jay on May 24, 2007, 12:29:50 PM
You do the hokey-pokey and you turn yourself around. That's what it's all about. ;)
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: kadi{MTC} on May 24, 2007, 06:22:39 PM
why didnt she come to me if she was upset by bitsy if anyone else has a problem with the fact that bitsy is large please let me know and i will bin her
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: ariella {*Arlon*} on May 24, 2007, 08:03:29 PM
don't let one person upset you sis, i think it is a nice bit of humor, and yes, i have struggled with my own weight problems in the past, and still do. People that cannot laugh at themselves are the sadest of all.
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: RAGNAR on May 24, 2007, 08:05:20 PM
*shakes head*
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: ariella {*Arlon*} on May 24, 2007, 08:06:15 PM
i guess i wasn;t done, lol
it seems like she had been wanting to leave for a while and was looking for a good excuse, in the time i have been here, i have never seen her in camp once, so i guess what i am trying to say is, she did not really want to be here in the first place.
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Shylina Marie on May 24, 2007, 08:13:11 PM
If she don't want to be here... then don't be here... flat out. pack your bags. don't let a bosk horn your ass on the way out.
it is a proven fact.... that the average size woman in the US is currently a size 14/16....... and to be honest I think the bulk of us that role play in this camp are above that.... does it matter..... I don't think so..... I am a plus size..... and not ashamed of it..... even though I can drop weight... sorry my chest will NOT go on vacation with any weight loss. while the hips can drop to a smaller size.. the rest of me won't... and to be honest.. I am tired and sick of perfectly good women having to chase this personna of a size 6 or 8.... I don't want to sit back in life and not have enjoyed a moment of it... and yes that does mean when I get the urge to have a turtle brownie I am gonna go bake the damn things. I didn't know who or what bitsy was....... yes... she is a lot of slave.. but she is still damned beautiful....
now that Said... yes those that know me know I am on somewhat of a diet.. why? because I am a diabetic and if I loose the required weight I am not staring medicine or shots in the face... I am doing this for me...because its what I want.. and the rest of the world can kiss my ass.
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: pleasure{MTC} on May 24, 2007, 08:45:04 PM
*smiles at Mistress Shylina.* its all good Mistress. and kadi i LOVE bitsy she is awesome! lotta luv there for the whole camp!
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Thalia on May 24, 2007, 09:35:41 PM
I'm a size 20, give or take a size depending on the clothing manufacturer. (And ladies, doesn't it piss you off that all clothing sizes are NOT created equal?) My Master loves my hips and my ass. He's put me on notice that he doesn't WANT a stick figure and would be highly displeased if there wasn't some cushion for the pushin'. ;D
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: LadyMuse on May 24, 2007, 09:45:07 PM
*chuckles* dee Him and OE think the same way. OE has told me that if I was ever a twinkie He would never touch me cuz He'd be afraid of breaking me, and I am roughly the same size clothing wise as you...depending on the manufacturer as you said. It's harder for me to find thigns that fit right though cuz I'm also petite, being so damn short.
LM
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Taryn on May 24, 2007, 10:03:12 PM
I have the opposite problem that you and dee have... apparently since all tall women are skinny, the manufacturer's think that we don't need plus sizes... ~rolls eyes~ that's why most of my pants I own that I have bought only come up to the middle of my shins or to the bottom of my knees... it's the one's that my mom and sister have made me that I have to pull up so I don't end up walking on them... ~laughs~ besides, I like homemade clothes better... it's a hellva lot cheaper to make than to buy...
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: kadi{MTC} on May 25, 2007, 02:55:43 AM
kadi is size 24+ is part of what is making her ill so she would be the last one to take the piss of big people, bitsy is used when kadi is feeling very low, she is used to cheer herself and others up, so sorry if ya dont like it get over it bitsy stays untill Master Rags says otherwise.
watch out Masters bitsy might want some loving ~gigglessssssssss~
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Shylina Marie on May 25, 2007, 05:10:27 AM
go bitsy....its your birthday... go bitsy... get some lovin... go bitsy.......
catches herself and straightens up a little
I am a size...18/20 on the bottom end.. and like Muse... I have absolute hell finding things that I don't have to cut 6 inches off of to make them the right length. on the top end... I'm easily a 22/24 depending on the cut because I get pissed off bigger than hell.. to find that oh so perfect top... and have the damn thing gap in the middle. back in 1992 I lost all my weight... got my top size down to a 18.... got my bottom size down to a 12.... and the ex husbands family said oh all you need now is a boob job and you will be in perfect porportions.... the damn things have been around.. full and bouncey since the 8th grade and I am not cutting them off unless a doc tells me its necessary.... my current husband has stated and I quote..... if I wanted some toothpic I could find that....I've seen pictures of you at 120 pounds and you look like one of those women from some third world country that don't never get anything to eat." I also have a good relationship with my future FC who is being supportive in being healthy... but NOT RAIL THIN.... end quote. the one thing that I wish they would make..... is beautiful clothing and beautiful underwear for us plus beauties.... bras without wires in them so we are not endangering our breasts.. panties cut so that they form right over the fullness of our backsides so one we feel sexy and two we feel comfy....(( not a thong person here)). I would like to see clothing that is made to fit all us plus babes that didn't look like it came from OMAR the tent maker....(( the whole moomoo thing doesn't work for me))...jeans that fit would be nice...shirts that fit that are not made out of cotton jersey material would be really nice.. shirts that were cut a little long to support the fact that they may have to fit over a mountain range would be really nice.
ok thank you for giving me a place to have a morning rant.... I needed this... now to get ready for my parents... love you Ladies..
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Kitya on May 25, 2007, 08:49:34 AM
Shylina, I have one word for ya... TORRID! *grin* It's a plus size store owned by Hot Topic. No, not all their stuff is goth... unfortunately. *chuckles* But I have gotten some wonderful things from them. I am currently at about a 22... I had gotten down to a large 18 before I got pregnant and ended up back at my 24s. I am trying to lose weight simply because I know I need to, and I know I'll be healthier and not sick as often if I do.
But yeah, Torrid is great. Lane Bryant is ok, but most of their stuff tends to go towards business type clothes. Altho, their jeans are really decent and have lots of style selections. Torrid has plus sizes IN FASHION!! yay! I have gotten several skirts and tops from them, and what I love, is that the styles they have picked look GOOD in plus size. So many of todays fashions look .. well.. like a tent in a plus size. Frustrates me to no end. If your local mall doesn't have a Torrid, that's ok! I have their website. http://www.torrid.com I have gotten bras and undies from them in the past, and they're great!
Lane Bryant's website is http://lanebryant.charmingshoppes.com/pagebuilder/ .. if yer interested. They're all having memorial weekend sales going on right now. Lane Bryants "unmentionables" are good too.. *nodding* Not as pretty as Victoria Secrets, but... not much we can do bout that. One of my gf's in Alberta orders her stuff from Fredricks of Hollywood cuz they're prettier than what she can find at home so that might be an option.
Oh, and Hubby is in agreement with y'all here. *chuckles* He agrees with me that for health reasons, I need to lose a few pounds, but not TOO many. *chuckles* Course... he needs to lose a few too... would lower his blood pressure.
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Sahara on May 25, 2007, 10:00:34 AM
and the hilarious part of this is that a goodbye post has gone to a women's clothing idea exchange! I love it!!!
*writes down the Torrid thingy and drives on*
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Shylina Marie on May 25, 2007, 10:37:48 AM
grabs the links... and starts gathering clothes ideas...... my kids informed me that just because I am 40... I am not dead... though I have talked my daughter out of wanting to die my hair platinum..... (( shudders))....... thanks Kitya..... so much.....and right now..... I have a beef with Lane Bryant.. because the last three times I have shopped with them... the bitches. and yes I will call them bitches here in nashville act like its a freaking inconvience to even wait on a customer.....
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Arlon on May 25, 2007, 02:06:40 PM
I look at it this way. You are the way you are, and if you are happy with how you are then nobody else has any right to bitch about it. Who cares if a woman weighs 115 pounds or 350, if she is content with how she is then she is beautiful. The bitsy concept is wonderful, because it pokes fun at the Gorean concept of the perfect slave, and the entire Camp's reaction to bitsy just proves that there's more than one kinda perfect. So you go kadi, bitsy is a helluva good idea and obviously the whole Camp loves her. She's jsut proof that a woman is beautiful no matter what size she is. (Oh, and Shy... if 40's dead Sis, you ain't the only one in trouble LOL.) Once again, jsut My 2 tarsks' worth. :P
.....Arlon
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Kitya on May 25, 2007, 08:38:24 PM
Shylina, I totally agree with your assessment of Lane Bryant's store. I had hoped it was just MY store like that. Apparently not. Which is why I never shop there anymore. If they have something I want, I order it online. The last time I tried getting somethign there was when I was pregnant and.. well.. my boobs grew out of my bra. *laffs* I waited by the bra area for 10 min. The workers just watched me and talked at the register. Refused to come help me. So I said the heck with it, and went to Torrid, where, even tho they were short staffed that day, and totally swamped, still made time to explain the different styles they had and which were better for what.
Oh, PS... Torrid always gets some TOTALLY AWESOME halloween costumes in. For those that have seen that pic of me in the Renn dress, that is where I got it. They have the naughty nurse etc stuff too... *chuckles*
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: silence{MTC} on May 26, 2007, 03:05:30 AM
~blinks and shakes head~ Well I use to weigh 296 Lbs and being only 5 feet tall ... I now weigh 236 and well I LOve Bitsy SO keep up the good work girlie. OH and BTW I LOve you guys....
ME
and to think i was afraid to come to the gathering cause i didn't want to be around a bunch of skinny chicks say what is the fat chick doing here LOL
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: RAGNAR on May 26, 2007, 08:54:01 AM
*huggers*
There is still time my silence!!!
:-* ;)
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: NightStorm on May 27, 2007, 12:24:21 PM
*blinks*
Nashville?....Shylina, did you say Nashville?
hmmm...pm me, hon....
NightStorm
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: RAGNAR on May 28, 2007, 01:14:26 AM
:D
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Thalia on May 29, 2007, 05:25:38 AM
Uh oh, I think this thread has had another unexpected positive outcome!
Looks like two online people just found one another, I got some great clothing tips (I already shop at Lane Bryant, but I do want to check out Torrid), and plus-sized women have been celebrated across the board. Good times!
As an aside, I have officially closed kiah's training thread on the slave boards, per Mistress Kelsey and Ubar RAGNAR.
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: a.typist.behind on May 30, 2007, 07:04:29 AM
there is no honorable way for a slave to leave gor. the first time I tried to leave here, 'round february i think, i had asked Rags to shelve my character. The request was denied and an arguement ensued which included him accusing me of pretending to care about him only to gain his collar and me in turn telling him to go to hell. I left, later apologized and he invited me back. I tried but i never got over those words of his. So those who think i left because i never earned his collar so be it but that is not my truth. I never got over his words, deserved at the time perhaps, but completely untrue. Ultimately they should have made me stronger, but i retreated, probably felt sorry for myself, but definitely put up walls and really never regained my will to r/p again.
i would like you to know i have found true joy in service and beauty in myself in the past. i served Sir for four years and are just friends now. i learned to love myself, my body, get in touch with the soft and sweet feminine side, while delving deep into the darker needs as well. accomodations were easily made for me, like not kneeling for long periods of time but finding other submissive positions. there are no limits to my submissions just because i am obese. my Owners over the years have judged my submission by my heart and only that and i could never serve One whom didnt. so while i have present issues in giving up control to someone because of linging hurt, i also had the problem in the back of my mind of r/p'ng some tiny perfect slave in gor. it just wasn't real enough for me and i come online to get as real as i can get it since my r/t is limited to such experiences. maybe it's just my heavy bdsm background, maybe its just me, maybe i'll never know...
i dont understand why some seem to take it personally that i didnt wish to r/p anymore. i could have stayed, did a chore once a week, r/p once a month, but that would not have been true to myself or your family or the spirit of Gor. my questions/posts on the board were about learning, not about attention, trying to understand and i always said maybe i just didnt get it. maybe i took it too seriously or myself too seriously but in the end i did find it in my own best interest to leave. i didnt give up, i just moved on, not to chat somewhere else, just to find my own peace and find closure with this part in my life. for those happy i left so be it. for those i considered my friends, i wish you good health and happiness. i did not leave in a hissy fit or with hatred. i am left with what you left me.
by the way, i like roamans.com and junonia.com..
the typist behind kiah
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Arlon on May 30, 2007, 09:27:09 AM
kiah, If you ever return to read this thread, know that your words were heard. That was very well said honestly. If Gor is not for you, then it is not for you. I wish you well.
...Arlon
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: Thalia on May 30, 2007, 09:41:27 AM
I didn't take it personally, not at all. If Gor isn't for you, and online submission does not meet your needs, then you must do what is best for you. I do wish you well!
Title: Re: kiah
Post by: RAGNAR on May 30, 2007, 11:01:42 AM
Tell yourself whatever you feel you must.
Seek whatever you feel you must have for happiness.
Just remember that the responsibility rests soley upon yourself when such is done.