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Gorean Roleplay => Tuchuk Wagon Camp => MTC OOC => Topic started by: pleasure{MTC} on August 03, 2007, 08:03:59 PM
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unfortunately, with my Father's death, it is unknown when i will be able to return. i am very upset and hurting right now. kinda struggling... i miss you all so much... i may show up in camp as early as sunday. love to all and thank you all for your well wishes and prayers.
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unfortunately, with my Father's death, it is unknown when i will be able to return. i am very upset and hurting right now. kinda struggling... i miss you all so much... i may show up in camp as early as sunday. love to all and thank you all for your well wishes and prayers.
Take whatever time you need.
Tuchuk understands.
Condolences on the loss of your Father.
*huggers*
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rt first sweetie, we love you
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You have my condolences, we are always here for you
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~snugglehuggles you~ you are in my thoughts and prayers... take as long as you need... and remember we will be here waiting for you when you are ready to return...
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YOU come first, before camp. Do NOT rush yourself, hon. -hugs-
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pleasure....my heart goes out to you in this time of loss. you, and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. take the time you need to get things...settled...inside of you. we will be here, with open arms when you return.
~hugs~
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i know things have been rough for you lately, but we are here for you. miss you, glad you are back, thinking of you. :-*
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*looking at you with a softness in my gaze*
Losing someone so dear to you is never easy.. You have my prayers, my condolences.. I can't promise it will ever get easier, but I can assure you that he will always be around.. An angel watching over you.
*hugs*
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take care of you hun.. time can always heal the emptyness.. as has been said.. he will always be with you watchin over you .. you know how to reach me.. lov ya.. so sorry for your loss...
chanz
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i want to thank all of you for your caring words. its made me so happy to hear that people still care.
He was my everything, my best friend, my rock, my shield, the sword to defend me, my teacher, and the only man i loved with all of my heart. He was the only one i could open my heart to wholly and not be afraid that it would get broken.
Arlon was there with me through it all, and i want to leave my thanks to Him for all His support.
i worry sometimes that when the big breakdown comes... i dont know what i will do... i dont know how i will deal...
heather
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alright, i think i can talk a little about it.
first of all Dad had a massive heart attack, i am given to understand that he died instantly.
we are starting to see some problems with the disposition of his estate. if anyone has any ideas on how to help, please pm me and let me know.
ive told this to many people in IM and in RT, BUT i cannot stress enough preplanning or prearranging your own services is a VERY good idea. making those kinda decisions under this kinda stress is difficult to say the least.
Love you all,
heather
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I am sorry for your loss.. I know it is hard for you ..for anyone to have to go through..it is epecally hard when it is a parent.. i have lost both of mine...just remember throught all of this to take care of your self ... camp and gor will be here when you are ready to come back... take your time.... also remember like most of us have already have said above and on messageners.. we are here if you need us... we may not be blood line family.. but still we are a Family and we do stick togather... know that you are loved...
da flame
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i request that pleasure be shelved for now... im having a lot of trouble dealing with this and am going to be under a psychaitrists care for a while and dont know when ill be back... i will try to check with the boards once a week or so i love you all and hope to be back soon.
heather
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i request that pleasure be shelved for now... im having a lot of trouble dealing with this and am going to be under a psychaitrists care for a while and dont know when ill be back... i will try to check with the boards once a week or so i love you all and hope to be back soon.
heather
LOA is granted.
Do remain in touch. We shall be here for you when able to return to role play... and you know we are here outside of role play as well.
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Just because pleasure is not in camp does not mean that heather is not loved and supported!
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i miss you heather.... *Grins impishly*
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You are very much missed, hun. You have my number, and I will probably drop by tomorrow to check on ya. Call anytime.
...Arlon / Tim
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a day in the life:
well... i woke up and sucked down half an antidepressant... ate at shoneys... went to a couple yard sales... came home... tried to sleep... dreamed about dad so only slept about thirty minutes i guess... laid there for about an hour reading. then laid down and watch tv, crying intermittantly... took the other half of the anti depressant about a minute ago and will be falling asleep soon... hopefully without dreams... this and being on WoW is the only thing ive been able to do since it happened... i feel so alone.
heather
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a day in the life:
well... i woke up and sucked down half an antidepressant... ate at shoneys... went to a couple yard sales... came home... tried to sleep... dreamed about dad so only slept about thirty minutes i guess... laid there for about an hour reading. then laid down and watch tv, crying intermittantly... took the other half of the anti depressant about a minute ago and will be falling asleep soon... hopefully without dreams... this and being on WoW is the only thing ive been able to do since it happened... i feel so alone.
heather
My pleasure... it is time for some tough love... meaning a boot in the ass from Rags.
You went out to eat, shopped (even if garage sales), sleep failed... understandable. Watched tv, read, cried (again understandable) and playing Wow..... and you feel alone.
Well... here is your loving boot in the ass. WAKE UP!!! You need not be alone. There are people in Tuchuk who care about you. If you can do this WoW stuff and some of these other things... then I see no reason why you need to cut yourself off from a very important and useful outlet for you. YOUR TUCHUK FAMILY!!!
Get into camp. It does not matter if it is in character, as you just may not feel up to being pleasing. I can understand this. Comming in with the ooc tag on is acceptable. There is a pm feature on the whochat that can be used... so there is no reason to feel you are going to disrupt the role play.
You lost a real time family member. None of us can expect to ever be as close as your father was/is. However... a girl still has family.... an entire camp of family members. If you feel alone... do something about it. Come where you will not be alone.
It is time to come home.
*Huggers*
KOTC
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pleasure sis this was to be posted by dee here if i did not pull though last attack it is my fav poem but i think it might help you i hope so
love kadi xxxx
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there I do not sleep
I am the thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain
When you waken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of gentle birds in circling flight
I am the soft star that shines at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there I did not die
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hugs her sisters tight.. an whispers.. pleasure/heather.. Master is right.. you are loved.. ** tightenin her grip on both you an kadi.. now you both know if you need to pm me when in camp an yu are ooc it is ok with me.. i can multi task.. really i can.. ** trips over a stray thrall as she talks an walks**.. love ya lots.. take care of you but remember you v/t family also cares much for your well bein no matter what.. i say this as it is just me but i am not a very happy person at the best of times in my r/t camp for me is salvation i do find much strength from the bonds that i have developed over the years.. an lov each an every family member in a different way.. but i do try to be there if ya needs me to talk with as was done for me by some in the past.. ** hands pleasure some healin ointment for the butt kick** it only will owie when ya sit sis..
*grins huggles ya tight an kotc for ya both*..
chanz the worring mother duck...
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it has been a while since i posted.
i thought i might let everyone know whats going on in my life for now.
i passed my test for school, so i decided to get my drivers license. i passed that too. then i took my GED and i passed that! im waiting on some moneys to come in then i will be going to school or to one of the trucking companies that train you.
im getting along a little better without Dad, things still hurt, theres still a hole in my heart, but im doing a little better. maybe i can try to get in sometime soon. i do have a house full atm though, my almost son, my bf, my roommate and a new roommate! LOL
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we look forward to see you!....remember you can always pop in ooc for a bit.
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Well done!!! *S*
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WTG heather! I am indeed proud of you for getting so much done in such a short time (even if I forgot to tell you in RT lol). Do what ya gotta do, holler at me if ya need me, and pop in Camp sometimes. Miss ya round here.
..Arlon
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wow it was a good day! congrats on all your sucess..hang in there on the rest.. time does heal.. but some things take a lot more time then others -hugs
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Congrats sweets... miss you muchly and love you dearly... talk to you soon... ~huggggggggles~