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Gorean Roleplay => Tuchuk Wagon Camp => MTC OOC => Topic started by: Shylina Marie on April 11, 2008, 12:14:33 PM
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I thought I would post it here... instead of on the prayers board....
after making alot of phone calls yesterday... I was instructed to take her through the er. so that her medical condition could be documented and things started.... the ball is rolling forward.. Adult protective services is also involved... They have also assigned home health care until such time comes available that she can go into a skilled rehab facility where the spina bifida and cerebal palsy are properly handled. from there she will also have Occupational as well as Physical therapy.... and life skills training to get her independent enough to transfer then to an assisted living facility. I think the hardest part for me is that I am having to do wound care and turning and catheter care at this time... (( whispers shush Nicolas I know what you said about I shoulda been a nurse)).....I am just afraid of things not being clean enough.... and I now have to fight the dog at times .. yoda has taken to protecting her and doesn't want others to mess with her at times....
its a slow process. but its actually moving along..the biggest thing for her is that she said she feels like she is a real person again.... and not just..a number or a way for a doctor to get paid. I thank you all for the prayers. and please keep them flowing.
Shy
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good for You and for Her.. the postive attitude that She has devloped
is vital to Her recovery and adjustment to things
i have a friend , on line who comsiders me Her father ( she is only 24)
ans last month thought that she had had a heart attack.. turns out
that it was a tear in her desendin arota.. but it almost killed her..
now a month later.. with grim determination she is clawing her way back
i know that she is making progess because of the way that she complains
about not being able to do all that she wanst..lol
anyway..i won't tell you not to worry.. but sounds like you have
a fighter on Your hands.. and sometimes that is what it takes..
best wishs Mistress
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Prayers continue sis. *Huggers* :-*
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thank you for sharing this with her/us Mistress..for some it takes great strength to ask for help........with prayers, kiah{MTC}
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Sis, You and Yours are in My thought and prayers now more then ever.
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:-*prayer are goin for you Sweet Sister of mine...huggers for you both :-*
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well.... so far... so good. it looks like we have cleared the urinary tract infection.... the pressure sores are making significant progress..and all the balls are rolling. the downside is the abuser is now trying to say that she was coerced into staying here. and that has upset her. but this too shall pass.. anything worth having or doing or obtaining such as freedom comes from hard work and dilligence... please continue with the prayers....we have a long week ahead of us
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As you say sis... this too shall pass. Prayers will continue. :-*
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Shy,
You have such strength in you. More than so many-- you will see this through and everything will come out for the better. My prayers are continuous for you and yours.
Love always,
Nex
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it sounds like Mistress is doing a wonderful job :)........kiah{MTC}
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oh god sis.....
honestly I have no idea whats going on but im praying like crazy.... hopefully everything will settle down and you will come home with great news..... well the news is great so far..... but lets see that abuser get what they deserve.
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well, yesterdays turn of events proved both stressful yet fruitful. little did I know that most people with spina bifida are allergic to things such as avacado and kiwi and latex and chestnuts. so I tryed her with the new drink mix that is made by fullfill fitness water that was kiwi strawberry flavored. we noted about an hour or so later that she was popping out hives. and then she started to feel as though her throat was closing up. thankfully the home health nurse was here and called for ems straight off....after being in the er for a while... and things having gotten addressed. the doc and the nurse pulled me out to the side and asked how I was holding up and handling all this. and I was honest.. which killed me to do because I have that Tuchuk mentality in rt.. that says I can kick your ass even on a bad day. I told them that I felt like I wasn't getting her enough care.. that I knew there was things that I still was not being able to tackle for her and that to be truthful....I was terrified that she would get hurt while in my home simply because I was not prepared for this. the doctors and nurses then set the ball into motion to find a reason to keep her in the hospital and were successful. KY has this nice little rule that states that you have to be in the hospital 3 days on out of state medicare/medicaid for them to force it to pay for a skilled facility care.
so the ball is moving down the mountain at a steady pace now. they also believe that they have found a mass in her belly and have to do testing for that. there is a broken harrington rod in her back ... there is also an occluded shunt for hydrocephaly, anemia, uti, and now they are dicussing a partial hysterectomy because she bleeds just way too much. the pressure sores are a huge deal as we found new ones already starting.... so she will be in the hospital until they are cleared and then they will place her to a skilled rehab nursing facility to get her wounds healed... then move her to an assisted living facility. I am just hoping this mass they are looking at isn't a new battle.
Shoko to get the full picture please go read the thoughts and prayers post on that board.. it will give you the rest of the story.
thank you family for what you are doing for her and for me right now. the fatigue has set in. RT has ordered me to rest today Because I am just tanked.
Shy
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keep your prayers going and your fingers crossed.... they said if they can see her push herself in a manual wheel chair they wll send her to the rehabilitation facility today..... not in 48 more hours... today
they do NOT understand why she was basically forced into a wheel chair when there is no need.. neuro has discovered nerves taht have gone dormant because she ha been sitting.... they feel they can be recovered and with teh aid of braces.. she will be able to walk on her own
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The prayers continue sis and yes... you need to rest. You do yourself nor anyone else any good if you are down.
Why force someone down? Simple.... Being down means dependency. Dependency means more attention hereby creating the need for additional care which translates to more income for the alleged care providers.
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~smiles and tears, crosses fingers and prays~
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takes a deep berath and croses fingers .. sends well wishs, Mistress
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after alot of stress.... which turned out to only be needing to make ONE phone call.... all the medicare and medicaid has been switched... and she will go into a nursing rehab unit tomorrow afternoon... progress is being made.... on the down side I don't know if I will get to go see her because I have taken RT's cold
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At least she is going to get the care she needs and deserves. Well done sis... and no worries... you may not see her immediately... but you will see her soon. *S*
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good news tinted with some bad.. but the good is very good
and time will pass slowly but it will.. best wishs to You
and Her, Mistress
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she is lucky to have you Mistress as we are too..please take care of yourself now.......kiah{MTC}