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Offline Shadow duck

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Just an update and an apology
« on: November 19, 2016, 05:56:14 PM »
1st I must apologize for being away so long from home but rt has been horrid, my husband was diagnosed with esphougeal ( spelling sorry) cancer he finally starts both chemo and radiation treatment mid dec five weeks of treatments then another pet and ct scan,then if all is well surgery to remove what ever is left of the tumour . Right now it is 10cm in size or 4 inches in normal language they are hoping to shrink it to at least half or hopefully more for extraction. We are trying to be positive but it's hard I spend a lot of time in tears after I finally get him to sleep. He cannot eat much only liquids and even that can cause him to vomit it back up. It's hard but we are trying and I thank you for allowing me to vent when I need to . I know everyone has their own problems and I truly wish we could find a way for all the suffering to be done with So we can all get back to our normal lives...

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Re: Just an update and an apology
« Reply #1 on: November 19, 2016, 05:58:36 PM »
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Re: Just an update and an apology
« Reply #2 on: November 20, 2016, 09:42:36 AM »
Hugs... i recently lost my father to lung cancer that had spread to his brain.. it was horrid to watch.. i feel for you and i have an understanding ear should you need it

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Re: Just an update and an apology
« Reply #3 on: November 20, 2016, 05:50:53 PM »
you are in my prayers twin... i am here if you need to lean on someone.... huggers
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Re: Just an update and an apology
« Reply #4 on: November 20, 2016, 06:22:18 PM »
You and your family are in my prayers......I'm here if you need me!

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Re: Just an update and an apology
« Reply #5 on: November 20, 2016, 07:59:38 PM »
You, your husband, and your family are in my prayers.

I am going through a similar situation with my father.

Stay strong, chanz. You are not alone. You have family and friends to lean on.

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Re: Just an update and an apology
« Reply #6 on: November 21, 2016, 05:51:03 PM »
I send prayers for you and yours
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