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Offline Kitya

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Overdue Update
« on: September 14, 2006, 09:01:14 AM »
I know it's been awhile since I updated, but there really hasn't been anything concrete to update on since the ultrasound last month.

Here's what has been going on so far. Pain, pressure, and being REALLY uncomfortable. *lol* Ok.. a bit more than that has been going on. My adopted daddy finally came over last week and took the pictures he's been wanting to take. He's not sure when I'll get copies back since he still has film in the cameras (he took colour and black and white), but as soon as he gets them developed I'll get my copies. Roy came home saturday evening, which was a huge relief for me, since now he's HERE... he's been slowly getting the rest of the things done that I wasn't able to do. Today he's putting the crib together, moving the love seat upstairs, and possibly starting in on the furniture moving in the living room... while he was on the ship he came up with an idea on how to rearrage the furniture to maximize on space. Heck, who am I to argue when the MAN wants to move the furniture?!?! *grin* My mom's casts are off her feet from her foot surgery, and things seem to be going well, altho one of her toes seems to want to go back to where it was, and her feet are very sore. She has an appt on the 12th to see what is going on and why they aren't healing the way they're supposed to.  She and I have been calling each other every couple of days it seems like. She's really wishing she was here, but... it's just not possible at the moment. They're planning on driving down next month for the christening tho.

As for baby stuff... last friday they did a peek to see if I was dialating at all.. which I wasn't. They were checking to decide when they were going to induce, but since I hadn't dialated, they decided to wait, and are checking me again tomorrow. I'm assuming tomorrow I'll have a concrete answer since on tuesday Lovins said that YES they are definitely inducing. Thing is, since my due date is the following friday, I have a feeling we're looking at inducing possibly as early as this weekend, and probably no later than tuesday.

Everyone around here has been so supportive. It's been great. The floor people in the Poker Room at the casino we go to have threatened to lynch Roy if he doesn't bring baby pictures, and have even decided to give us the poker room discount on a hotel room one weeknight after I'm home so that I can stay in the hotel with Kym and they can all sneak over on their breaks to come see her. *chuckles* When they heard that both sets of parents might possibly be here for the chistening they said to come to them and they'd see what they could do about getting us free buffet meals for everyone... which, as you can imagine, is awesome of them!! Even my neighbours across the street (an older retired couple) showed up on my doorstep last week to make sure I was alright! *grin*

Now I have a question for all of you moms... Roy's been talking to the people at the casino, and whenever he says that we're planning on breastfeeding, they all laugh and say, yeah, we planned on doing that too but bottlefed after a week. Now, I know breastfeeding is painful at first, but I want to know how many of you breastfed, and why, and how many bottlefed and why. I make no judgements either way since I was bottlefed and I turned out just fine (relatively speaking... *grin*). I'm just curious, because it really surprised me that NO ONE that Roy talked to actually breastfed. I've always planned on doing a combination of the two, leaning more heavily towards breastfeeding.

Kiersten

PS: when I know the actual date of inducing, I'll let everyone know, and if I'm allowed to have a laptop in the hospital room I'll try to get onto msn at the very least and let people know so they can pass on the message after she's born.

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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #1 on: September 14, 2006, 09:30:40 AM »
I breastfed 3 of 4 children. The best advice I can give you is to learn how to get Kym to "latch on" correctly. I had the painful experience, with the first try at breast feeding. The second and third times went much smoother because I had learned how to get the kids to latch on correctly.

Even if you learn that process quickly, there will be some soreness, but thats just your body adjusting to having a rather tender area used every few hours for something that it usually isn't used for.

I used a combination of breast feeding and bottle feeding with my last child. She breast fed most of the time but I did accustom her to the bottle from a very early age, and when I needed to use a bottle she didn't complain.

If there is a La Leche League in your area, contact them and they will be more than happy to help with techniques and suggestions for successful breast feeding.

In any case, whatever you choose, just enjoy her. Don't let anyone make you feel badly if your choice isn't what their choice would have been. If you and Kym are happy, then thats all that counts!
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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #2 on: September 14, 2006, 02:33:56 PM »
well if i could have breast fed i would have -snickers-  our son is adopted soooooo LOL it wouldnt have been quite right if i had tryed that, tho dad says he likes doin it

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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #3 on: September 14, 2006, 04:12:00 PM »
breast feeding has its positive points an neg ones also.. soooo if you can then do so but invest in a good support bra an yes do have bottles on hand also just incase you don't want to get up to feed the wee one inthe nite you have the milk already pumped an ready for daddy to warm up an feed the baby.. that way he gets to injoy the late nite wake ups also..

I managed to be able to breast feed two of my three... the last I could not as I developed breast fever on one side **talk about owies...**.. switched to bottles after three weeks with her... the other two lasted till they were about six months old then went straight to a sippy cup... hey works for some..lol...

leaves ya loads of hugs an good thoughts that you will have her in your arms very soon..

loads of luv..

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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #4 on: September 14, 2006, 04:28:11 PM »
Breastfeeding didn't work out for me.  Massive as my mammaries may be, they still never got milk.  ~puzzled look~  Aaaanyway... you, beautiful mama, are in my thoughts.  As soon as this weekend and as late as Tuesday, you're going to welcome a beautiful daughter into the world, and that's absolutely magical.  I'm so excited for you!

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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #5 on: September 14, 2006, 05:30:23 PM »
*looks at dee and crosses my arms*...now just because they are bodacious tatas, doesn not mean we can ever use them....translated - I never got milk either.....go figure

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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #6 on: September 15, 2006, 02:32:49 PM »
Alrighty, here's what has been decided. *chuckles* I STILL have not started dialating, which Lovins isn't happy about, but since she doesn't want me to go to full term, I am being checked into the Birthing Center at 5pm monday evening where they will give me some kind of medication that will encourage diatation. I will be STAYING at the hospital at that point. Then, tuesday morning at 6am they will give me ..I think it's called Pertocin... to induce labour. So, sometime on tuesday I should have a baby on the outside of me. Lovins has explained that doing this CAN and DOES increase the risk of needing a C section because if I don't dialate at all, or not enough, that is exactly what is going to happen. I've already accepted that, and have been half expecting to need a C section for the last few months anyway. SO when I pack up my bag, I'm packing for an extended stay, just in case.

We are allowed to have the laptop in the Birthing Center, so we will try to get pics up asap, altho honestly, since it'll be HIS laptop and therefore his email addresses, I don't think we'll email to anyone but the grandparents. I will try to get onto msn or the board to let everyone know tho, or, I'll get dee to let everyone know since she's on the friends to call list.

Thanks everyone who felt comfortable enough to talk about their baby experience. I honestly hadn't thought of the possibility of not producing.... I had thought of not being able to produce ENOUGH... but not at all hadn't even occured to me, and it's something I may very well have to face as well. I'm extremely nervous... excited, but very nervous as well.. it's becomming more real to me now, and... having to be force dialated and induced does worry me some, even tho I know it's safe. Just those unknown variables... ya know? ANyway, if I don't see any of y'all over the weekend, I love you all, and thank you so very much for all the support everyone has given me. You, my Family, have really helped me thru this, and beenthere to answer all my stupid questions. I truly have appreciated this support over the last 9 months.

Kiersten

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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #7 on: September 15, 2006, 03:19:23 PM »
got my fingers an toes crossed that all goes as planned.. You know that sometimes with the onset of a possible force labour the baby just decides ok lets give mom the joy of me sooner than what the doc says... I only hope the best for you an yours an look so forward to pictures up of this blessing that keeps ya waitin for now.. ** on the plus side enjoy the quiet cause it ain't gonna last long now..**..

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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #8 on: September 15, 2006, 06:05:17 PM »
Well, I produced milk, but nowhere near enough. Aundonia was never satisfied, and I had to switch to bottle to get her to sleep for more than a few minutes at a time.

I'll be keeping you in my thoughts on your big day!

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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #9 on: September 17, 2006, 03:55:56 PM »
thoughts and prayers sis!!!

just a short time left. *S*

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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #10 on: September 18, 2006, 08:08:35 PM »
Just hours from the special moment...~excited smile~

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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #11 on: September 18, 2006, 09:45:56 PM »
*grins* My thoughts have been with you all day Sis...and will continue to be.


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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #12 on: September 18, 2006, 11:57:11 PM »
*duckshoves everyone outta the way*

woobie wants to hold da baby first!!

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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #13 on: September 21, 2006, 04:28:16 PM »
Mistress has had her baby!  Unfortunately, I was at my school's Open House and missed the call, which came in at 9:25 p.m. ~pouts~  I'm going to try to call her tonight!

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Re: Overdue Update
« Reply #14 on: September 21, 2006, 08:29:40 PM »
WHOOT!!! *sends love and hugs to My Sis and baby Kym*



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