~sends tons of huggles to moon~ No one should outlast their children, but at times it does happen, just think of them as being your extra guardian angels... not only do you have one, that being your mother, but now you have two very special guardian angels watching over you...
Though right now it may seem like the world is turning against you, just remember you have a family of friends here in MTC thinking about you and praying for you and your family... And remember that in time you will remember them with smiles not tears... that time not be for sometime yet, but it will happen... I am sure that they don't want you to spend a lot of time grieving for them, that they would like you to remember them with smiles, to remember the times you and them shared many happy moments... ~huggles you~