*agrees with woobie and nods* aye, not always love, and certainly not necessarily. there might be a little bit more "underlying" loyalty maybe, but nothing set in stone.....
and I also agree with woobie about how Rags, her and My situation has always worked out....the T/three of U/us are extremely lucky in the fact that O/our situation just works....there is no question, there is no yours mine ours.....it just is.....Rags has His Own coffers, I have Mine, there are the camps coffers.....but...well.....even the "physical" as well as "emotional" logistics just seem to work.....woobie and I have our own "connection" that has been built upon for 8 years, and Rags and I also have our own "connection" for the same amount of time....I was close to both long before I ever became His Woman......and maybe that is the key to why the three of our's "relationship" just works....because it simply is........and it is kept simple.....and coming into the FC.....Rags and I talked extensively for months, as well as I talked to woobie....about the logistics and what if's and whys long before anything was ever set in stone.....
I had a slave at the time I was FC'd.....and honestly miss her dearly, but she has a good rt now, and that is what is important,.....but point being.....she was mine going into it, as was woobie with Rags.....
the joint collar needs to be agreed upon by the Free.....if the Man feels like having His slaves in a joint collar, He should inform his companion or future companion, and the Woman can have her input.........keeping in mind it is always the final decision of the Man's wagon and how He wants to run things........always, in everything.....
I had the long answer to this, and woobie's is far more succinct and to the point, but if there is A/any out there that want to find out or wants more advise on how to make an FC with slave(s) work, and E/everyone be relatively content, if not blissful, please ask......cause Rags', woobie's and My relationship has exceeded ...um..........wow........more than 4 years now.......by Odin, our "precompanionship" lasted longer than a lot of full out FC's that I know of LOL