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Can Only Shake My Head
« on: September 08, 2008, 03:31:57 AM »
I found this on the AR Boards;

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WebMaze is not closed..
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Gioco_Di_Ruolo - 7-31-2008 at 12:38 AM
Tal and greetings all,

Sorry but so many people have asked Me or said to Me that they thought WebMaze was close..its not

Main url WebMaze

Gorean Roleplay General Discussions


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Gioco_Di_Ruolo - 8-25-2008 at 06:21 PM
~~~~BuMps~~~~


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Mi§tral - 8-25-2008 at 06:50 PM
Ok why would you bump this up?

Never mind, no need to answer I can guess!


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Gioco_Di_Ruolo - 8-25-2008 at 06:53 PM
Tal Mi§tral

I bump'd it of WebMaze being down but not closed..

Thats why.....


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Mi§tral - 8-25-2008 at 11:10 PM
As I said there was no need to bother replying I really could care less about the place, and I was just to lazy to delete what I had already written.

Shut down, closed, it doesn't matter to me I never go to the place as a matter of fact any interest I had ended some time ago.

Now you have a darned good day ........ or NOT!


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Gioco_Di_Ruolo - 8-28-2008 at 08:11 AM
Tal Mi§tral

I am sorry You find the place as You do.. Too each their own... But I can understand I find many site's not to My liking or un Gorean it just the way things are.. But I don't judge people or homes by the site they live on or frequent.. To Me on every site there Maybe a Gorean.. So lately I tend to try to focus on My actions and not those of others..

I could be on any site and still be Gorean it makes no issue to Me…


I wish You Well
Gio


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Petorik - 9-5-2008 at 08:21 AM
I would say * it is obvious you are not of the old Goreans * nor were you involved prior to the mass exodus away from Webmaze… Brought about by the underhandedness of both Buddha and Ragnar…


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Phylsys - 9-5-2008 at 09:00 AM
Bellows low.

Tis good to see a post from someone I assumed had surrendered to the warnings of his physicians. I hope your beast of the "hat" is equally vivacious. Feels reassured that not all of the old standard has released his astute grip of the gorean situation.

[Edited on 9-5-2008 by Phylsys]


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Hesprit - 9-5-2008 at 04:02 PM
Webmaze exists. Nothing wrong with that, there are those who call WM home who had nothing to do with past events.

That's the thing, what happened is the past, it will not be changed and there is no need for it to be changed. There would be no point now.

The bottom line now is that there were Goreans, even those who did not get along so well, who reacted to events as Goreans, standing for what they believed in. Doesn't much matter how you word it, THAT WAS GOREAN. No big plans were needed, no secret agendas, simply a number of people made their choices for the reasons they felt were proper.

What I miss most of those days was the camaraderie, trust and friendships. Too many people were moving in too many directions and having to put focus into different things. There's no point in debating whether change was good or bad, change is simply that, change. We make of it what we can.


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Gioco_Di_Ruolo - 9-5-2008 at 08:19 PM
Tal, Hesprit

I thank You for Your words here…They show the wisdoms of a Man who throw the years has earned My respect.. although We may not of seen eye to eye on many issues I do take note that the fact We have always respected each others right to view things as We do.. I thank You for the u2u and I was not part of That time (the time that is being spoken of here) on Maze as I had already left Maze by then. I was of Gorchat or other sites while these actions where being carried out.. Now I am a honest believer that a Man speaks better in His actions and many will note the change in site of My home… NOT of any thing being said here of Issues of this day that just where not met in a timely fashion, or a prudent solution given.. The simple fact is My home called a vote and it was time to leave rather than try to address our needs that where not being met.. A simple Gorean solution was made.. We of Kassars are just that and have no interest in site political battles… its not the site that makes a Gorean it’s the Man and His actions…


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Gioco_Di_Ruolo - 9-5-2008 at 08:27 PM
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Originally posted by Petorik
I would say * it is obvious you are not of the old Goreans * nor were you involved prior to the mass exodus away from Webmaze… Brought about by the underhandedness of both Buddha and Ragnar… 


Your assumptions are wrong of Me.. I per date those troubles and had already left Maze back then Once before to live on Gorchat… I guess I made the correct actions...
so No I was not involed with that mess, Laughs

[Edited on 9-6-2008 by Gioco_Di_Ruolo]


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TSO - 9-6-2008 at 02:18 AM
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[Edited on 9-6-2008 by Gioco_Di_Ruolo] 


so Your now in PG not wm as Ubar of Kassar wm? a simple question seeing Your sig line that reads:


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Plain acknowledgment for I feel I am in my home Red Shield Camp, Kassars, PG 


I wish you well!

[Edited on 9-6-2008 by TSO]


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Gioco_Di_Ruolo - 9-6-2008 at 06:24 AM
Tal The Silent One

Laughs, I am of Red Shield Camp, Kassars, PG.... But still have a paid membership to wm that I guess I'll use for av storage...
being there was a Kassar and a Darkside of Kassar on whochat of PG..I went to the books and came up with a whochat name Red Shield Camp or The Blood People..
The site admin felt The Red Shield Camp was a better name..
I sorta liked them both but made no difference its still Kassars just named that way to clear whochat confussions..


I wish You well
Gio



[Edited on 9-6-2008 by Gioco_Di_Ruolo]


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TSO - 9-6-2008 at 08:18 AM
Mi§tral , Petorik
and Hesprit are very Old Goreans Whom I Respect..Their Wisdom , and knowledge I always read..IWYW then Gio.. in Your new endeavour on Pure Gor..what type of Kassar Home will it be? I dont travel unless Our Proprietor allows Me to, was just curious as Im sure Many are..best of luck in Your new Home and site it resides on..ka dish day..ego ga han.I also wish You well Gio..as always..ashoge for the clarifacation..II do hope You will post some quotes to teach Others on the thread I implemented awhile back..Im interested in the knowledge of this area..Ashoge for Your reply and time Gio!


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[Edited on 9-6-2008 by TSO]


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Gioco_Di_Ruolo - 9-6-2008 at 08:53 AM
Tal The Silent One

I mean no disrespect to Mi§tral , Petorik or Hesprit.. I simple am stating a site has noting to do with a Home or the Goreans within it..only appling the per set ideals and philiosophies within the books to Our lifes makes Us Gorean or not...

if I am in My car driving to work I am still Gorean.. it makes no matter the car I drive...as long as it runs correctly, LOL

I wish You well
Gio

I will not go into great detail on all aspects of this thread, but a few things do need to be addressed.

Certainly there was a falling out at Maze years ago. Looking back, it would have been easier to remain silent instead of making a stand for what was right then... and that remains unchanged to this day. Was it fun or enjoyable? No. But it needed to be done. I suppose it is always easier to just mingle in with a herd than it is to make a stand. There was no underhandedness, no plotting, no agenda, on Buddha's part or my own.  There were issues.... I took a stand.... Buddha reviewed the entire matter and made a ruling. That ruling was not flattering to the ringleaders of the herd and they bailed in a hurry followed by the weaker members of the herd who were so used to being led around by the nose it was just natural for them to continue to do so. The rest is history. Of those that left Maze, I do believe that without the hand holding, the special favors, etc.... only one room still remains from those days and that is Turia. All the other rooms died off or simply vanished. Some may have been restarted and restructured, but they were not as they were on Maze. What is done, is done, and though very unpleasant, I would not hesitate to do it all over again were it possible to turn back time.

As far as Gio's needs not being met here on Maze... and I guess that is his reason for leaving... I am not really sure as he, like others, just sneak off and appear on another site overnight. I do ask those who seek to relocate rooms to Maze inform their site they are leaving. It just seems the right thing to do. Whether they always do or not rests upon them.

I feel both Maze and myself went far and above the norm for sites and staff in meeting Gio's needs... as well as the needs of everyone in general. Gio approached me sometime ago regarding moving his room to Maze. We discussed the situation and he decided to do so and work began on his room while he was to inform Pure Gor he was leaving due to their Admin butting in where he felt they should not be, in a nutshell.

The room was created and basics set up. He provided me with an entry which I put in place after discussing Site Policies with him regarding visitors and observers... and he was to purchase the membership required for the room by week's end.

It seems rt must have taken him as the room sat unattended without word from him. I allowed the room to stay open for several weeks until finally, with no word from him, I made the room invisible.

He pops back up and inquires about his room, and informed me RT did in fact take him... but now he was back and wished to proceed. I brought the room back visible within a few minutes and reminded him he would still need to purchase his membership for the room.

Weeks passed and stil no membership... yet the room remained open while we carried him. I understand RT can be nasty at times so he was given the benefit of the doubt and he was trusted on his word to settle up. I got responses of how he had forgot... that the bank was closed... how it was coming on Monday... then the unfortunate passing of a family member. As such is not the time to be demanding monies I let it slide another couple weeks.

WEBMAZE has never been about the money, but a membership is required to show some sort of commitment to operating a room.

Finally a short term membership was purchased, and Gio wished his list of pulldowns added for his room. I asked him to send me the text of what he wanted and I would put them in. He offered to code them all up and I politely declined as it is much easier to simply code pulldowns myself than it is to go through and check the coding done by another. What did I get? Pulldowns coded... the opposite of what was requested.... and coded incorrectly to boot.

Rather than kick them back to him and ask him to resubmit them as they were requested, I did the extra work and put his pulldowns in for him. Finally all seemed well.

About a week or so ago he asked what the requirements were to obtain mod status. He was informed five paid memberships to his room and/or good room traffic that would justify the need for a mod. That was all that was said.

I guess an anon came in and said something unpleasant in his room, so he came into the room passing himself off as ADMIN. As far as I know he made no posts as Admin, but only entered as ADMIN. I had to inform him this was a no-no as that could be seen as impersonating site Admin. I do not remember what was said by the anony so it must not have been anythng drastic or stellar. Most would just ignore it and continue. After all... we are supposed to be adults. As such we just accept some people are challenged in the maturity department and we just ignore them and move on.

As far as meeting the needs of his room, or his needs, Maze and myself went beyond what can be considered the norm. People have to realise there is also such a thing as a two way street. Very lil is asked of room leades or chatters, yet for some reason, some feel it is all about them and to hell with everything and everyone else.

If Gio refers to his needs not being met due to the site being down, Buddha is addressing this matter. Every site will have its issues at some time or another. None are happy when it happens to their site... but rest assured it does happen. Maze was the most stable site for over a decade.... now it is our turn to have problems. This too shall pass and another site or more will have issues. It is just the way of things it seems.

What I can take from this:

Not to take people at their word... as their word and actions seldom coincide.

When requests are made by staff and a room leader fails to meet those requests, do not fix things myself. Kick it back to the room leader and wait until they submit things as requested.

If it involves memberships, get the money first. If service is rendered before payment is collected, there will never be an urgency to settle a debt.

When a room leader disrupts my roleplay to speak with me or make a request, tell them to post it to the support board. Taking time out from my own role play to hold a hand is not appreciated... it is demanded.

When told "X" number of paid memberships are on the way... refer to the first lesson to be taken about taking people at their word.



Will I take these lessons to heart? No. I will not place everyone in the same category as Gioco. I will continue to try and help people and give them a break even when they make my life tougher and don't listen. LOL

Thats just the way I am.

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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #1 on: September 10, 2008, 01:30:19 AM »
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Mi§tral - 9-9-2008 at 10:54 PM
Hes,

Not to flog a dead horse, but no matter how you spin it ... wrong is wrong!!!

This has already garnered more attention than I had intended, and I won't give any more time to a dead site than I already have.

Petorik, good to see you.

Hes, good to see you as well.

Gio, Gorchat was a place I'd been at it's inception.

I don't brag about it for good reason.

I didn't stay, and had a good long fight with the ghost that ran it.

I certainly am glad that I made up with Des before her passing.

My point is that Old Gorean is a relative term.

There are people that have been around allot longer than I ... I don't however consider them Gorean!

By the way I don't judge people by which site they are part of ... I judge them on thier behaviour, and their company.

I could go on and on and on about WM the people that run the Gorean Section what have you to what end?

Nothing is going to change ... so let them play with their toys, and I'll play with mine.

Now you have a good day ....... or NOT!

I certainly agree that wrong is wrong. That is why I made the stand I did and I do not regret taking the side of what was right. You and the others... on the other hand... either wished to continue the crap that was taking place or were just to weak to make a stand, or too afraid to lose your popularity. So your lies and continued crap still is spewed at every opportunity. Face it... it is pretty much a dead issue... for none of you would dare stand up and actually confess to the games and lies you committed without losing what lil respect some still do hold for you... misplaced though it is.

Maze may not be as crowded as it once was... but there is also blessings in that as well. We do not have to contend with the likes of you as well as the sheer volume of children a few sites do. We live our venue quite well and continue pretty much as we always have.

There is a partially true statement... though misplaced. There are a couple who have been around HTNL Gor longer than you or I... that are not gorean. Certainly... knowing you as I do.... you fail to make the grade real time, virtual time, or anytime.  Sure... you play your lil fantasy game with your girl whenever the two of you can sneak off to get the time together, and the two of you spout off a great deal about how gorean you are, but that is pretty much where it ends.

I do not judge by site either... nor do I judge by the company people keep. I may not like someone but I do not hold a friendship with one i dislike against another I do. I look at the individual and decide for myself alone if I wish to associate with them. Aside from slapping you around like a spoiled child when the mood occasionally arises just to have a chuckle... I do not miss associating with your ilk at all.

So yes.... go run along and play. Gor is still alive on Maze. Gor is still alive in Tuchuk after all these years.

That is more than can be said for your own many failed and abandoned play rooms through the years.

You may still fool some people... but never for a moment forget... you no long fool myself or as many as you once did.

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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #2 on: September 13, 2008, 02:18:19 PM »
Our Main Reason Of The Move Was The Site Was Down For Days And There Was No One To Remove Unwanted People From Our Home.




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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #3 on: September 13, 2008, 02:26:00 PM »
Agreed...moving because of being down for extended periods of time provides nothing but frustration and disgust...how can one r/p if the site is down??

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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #4 on: September 13, 2008, 03:57:24 PM »
Ok all I see is people bitching and complaining about this and that...I know why there was a move and well I agree with Master Gio there was noone around when there was someone that have to be removed, I was placed in to the camp cause my Master Nic thought it was the best and what time I was in the camp I did enjoy...while the sight was up which was not much I think there was only two or three days. Now Master Gio did find a place to RP on chat suites and well everyone seemed to stuck up to go there which is an insult to me for the is my RT Husbands/Masters site...

he is the System admin there it’s a lot better the play there then any where besides on PG where people at lest treat You better as well as they do not make a stupid flipping rule where You have to have 5 room members before You can get the boots....to me that is bull shit hell if You buy the room then that should get the boots all WM seems to care about is the money and nothing more. Normally my words are more chosen and a lot less ummmm...

harsh but I am sorry everyone but a few seem to think that Master Gio did this over night I do not beleave that I can see that this was a long time coming cause of WM selfish ways....


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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #5 on: September 13, 2008, 04:14:32 PM »
agreed....having a site being down can be frustrating...But in the time I have been here on Maze...
over 10 years...I can honestly tell you the site has not been down that much.

But can you name any other site out there that has not at one time had technical
problems and had gone down?

dont think so...


As for the "Rule"..I expect your room leader (Gio) knew of that rule from the get go...as everyone who applies for a room is told this and he still took the room...It was his choice..he went with it.
 

As for no one around to remove unwanted people from your room....
No moderator or Staff on any site is around 24-7...and no site Admin expects
this of any of their Staff and Mods. We have lives outside of rp play too.

That is why that handy dandy IGNORE feature is in all the rooms...on every site.



Now...you made the choice to move to whatever site...for your reasons...just enjoy it..

(modified for one spelling error...hey..I'm getting better!)

« Last Edit: September 13, 2008, 04:22:18 PM by -TT- »

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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #6 on: September 13, 2008, 05:17:11 PM »
I can name a few sites that have not been down as of Yet, hell I use to play on WM a lot about when I first started out then the rooms varnished or died off so I went to different places to  play but that along time ago.

Gio is not my Master I was pawned out to his Camp to help me with some things and well it did.. When he could help me.

As I said before I am sorry if this stuff is coming off snippy or mean it is not how it is ment

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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #7 on: September 13, 2008, 05:28:52 PM »
well, i was asked my opinion on whether the room should leave or stay and i voted to leave...not that my opinion matters as opinions are like @holes, everyone has one, but seeing as everyone else has posted theirs figured i would add mine.....so...my dislikes were that the room was down several times, at least every second day....yes at times it was only minutes but is was down a lot....another was that there was someone that would come in and post obscenities, disrupt role-play and just be plain out rude to anyone in the room and would come in over and over and over no matter how much we ignored them...this went on for quite a long time, and i know that no site has 24/7 moderation but this was definite harassment...another was that the site has little traffic anymore...not calling down that site at all just simply stating a fact...so we decided that webmaze was not right for us...i didn't think that it was anything to get angry over or for anyone to argue about or call anyone down over...webmaze made some money and we moved to someplace that better suited our needs, didn't think their would be such hard feelings....anyways, i wish webmaze the best and hope that the hard feelings end there....wishes Eeveryone well....

just my two cents.....
« Last Edit: September 13, 2008, 05:35:55 PM by sugar »

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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #8 on: September 13, 2008, 09:11:00 PM »

he is the System admin there it’s a lot better the play there then any where besides on PG where people at lest treat You better as well as they do not make a stupid flipping rule where You have to have 5 room members before You can get the boots....to me that is bull shit hell if You buy the room then that should get the boots all WM seems to care about is the money and nothing more. Normally my words are more chosen and a lot less ummmm...

harsh but I am sorry everyone but a few seem to think that Master Gio did this over night I do not beleave that I can see that this was a long time coming cause of WM selfish ways....


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ilori

That BS hell, as you call it might apply on a site where you do have to "buy" your room. WM is not a site where you have autonomy because you bought a room.

I have been chatting on WM for pretty darn close to 10 years. 5 paid members in a room for each set of "boots" that room has has always been the policy on Maze for all that time. It is NOT a new thing just to persecute those of your room.

Y'all moved on. I am happy for you. I, personally promise to miss you if it will make your life better. *snort*  Just don't whine about a site where your room's Leader knew the Site's policies before a room was set up for him, then was given lots of leeway because of his personal issues without those basic policies being enforced. His method of thanking WM for that extra mile given, well, was to say the least, tacky and inconsiderate.

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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #9 on: September 14, 2008, 12:51:37 PM »
What I find hilarious, is that I was online when the "Admin" thing happened.  When Gio went into his room to proclaim he was admin with an anonymous.  Gio has my ICQ and my MSN, and is aware that in fact, I am a Moderator to webmaze.  I didn't get so much as a ping on my messengers saying "Hey.  I need some help here."  Not a single word.  So if anyone wants to blame anybody for the "problems" in Kassar that went unresolved because there was no moderator online?  Well I guess you all can blame Gioco for that, because I was online.  I'm almost always online except for the times when I am asleep.  And you can pretty much find me in MTC at all hours of the day.  If not, then my messengers are up.

The idea that they left because they couldn't get a moderator is bullshit.  The only reason why you all are so angry over the fact that the site keeps going down, is because for the MONTHS Kassar was up as a room before the site crashes began...it stayed empty.  No one was ever in there.  It was set as invisible, until Gio returned.  And then he returned, and it was brought back up, and all was good, until it started crashing.  Well I am sorry, servers lose power at times, sites do crash.  Just because you personally have not been on the site while it has crashed, doesn't mean it didn't crash.  When the bear shits in the forest, and no one is there to see it.. Does it still shit?  Ayup, it sure does.  We never asked for any of your opinions on this matter.  Gio couldn't even be bothered to post his beef with Maze on these boards, nope, he chose somewhere else to post his issues.  And in return, Ragnar posts his defense here, because it is a Webmaze issue as it seems to be a problem against Webmaze and Webmaze policies.

So you all go play on whatever site you found that is absolutely perfect, pay your 120 dollars to have your room and moderator.  And when GIO isn't online to boot, and no one else is either when you have problems?  I'll guess we'll see you again when you move your room once more.

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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #10 on: September 14, 2008, 01:31:46 PM »
It is nice to see the females predominantly trying to fight Gio's lil skirmishes for him. But try to color this incident as you will... it does come down to one thing that touched all this off.

Vanishing from Maze.... sneaking out.

The site ups and downs right now was not confined just to Gio's room. I do realise it may be difficult for some of you to grasp. but it has affected all of Maze... my own room included. I do not staff from an out of touch position. I am in my room just as much if not more than anyone else on Maze, and likely more than many people across the web. I too hear the grumblings and growls from my room members as well as others when their staff contacts are not online.

The role play, discussions, etc, are also interupted by the site going down in my room. Even posting the message boards are interupted. This was not a Gio persectution exclusively.

I did go way out of my way to try and see to every need voiced by Gio as well as those not voiced. I will not however grant special treatment to anyone in direct violation of Maze policies. I can and do at times stretch them to the breaking point to try and accommodate people, as all situations are a bit different in some way. The site policies do allow some leeway for this. But blatantly voiding a site policy for one person will likely not happen on my watch.

Some people change sites like underwear... rooms as well. That is inherent to this venue.

As a room leader, first and foremost, I am very much in touch with the needs of a room and its members. Never doubt that for an instant.

The times Gio reported things to me, I looked into them, checked the logs, all that good tedious stuff. The results were one ban, and the other was an isolated thing that having boots would have done nothing to change. More could have actually been accomplished by ignore than by creating a bigger attraction by a gag or boot.

Moderator status is not magic. One does not need boots to chat. Some just think they are a magical chat device granting total power and without them chat can not take place. This is incorrect. Yes... they are a tool and do come in handy when properly applied. From looking at the logs, how things progressed and the end result... odds are good had Gio had boot powers and used them, he would have been called on the carpet. Maze does have a set of guidelines for using boots and the gag tools.

Looking at Gio obtaining boots... there are two ways to obtain them in Maze. Memberships being one. And just to pretty much offset the accusations it is all about money... the second way is to have enough room traffic to warrant boots. This has no bearing on money. This is simply having a room attractive enough to draw in people thus creating room activity and productivity. Gio's room was growing. It was starting to become a productive room... and in my judgement, had it continued, I would have likely set up a time to get with him to go over the moderator policies, get him going on the mod consol, and he would have had his boots. Naturally... both memberships and activity is the ideal scenario... but either/or can earn a room boots.

The bottom line in all of this is the fact Gio left without so much as a "kiss my ass".

There is nothing acceptable about that.

As a room leader I am well aware of all the factors involved in a room and seeing to its needs. All Gio had to do was even drop me an IM stating he felt the need to leave Maze for a site that was a bit more stable regarding downtime. I can understand this and accept this. It is not burning any bridges... it causes no hard feelings... it is not slamming or insulting to any site. It is simply a necessary decision made in his eyes that is best for his room and members.

It is just that simple.

I should not have to find out a room has left Maze by reading it on another site's message board, or checking a whochat. No site staff or admin should have to learn of a room moving in such a way. NONE!!!

When rooms wish to relocate to Maze, I do ask them to inform their current site. I give them an idea of when the room will be up and operational so they are not left without a home during the move. Whether they do or not rests on them. I do not hold Merci to blame for this in any way. As a matter of fact I have worked with her on a couple of occasions regarding a couple of situations, and I found her extremely approachable and a pleasure to work with!!!

The story of being offline, etc, does not fly in regards to informing me. I saw Gio in his room on PG. He had time to drop me a line. He has me on Q... there is the Maze Board IM feature... Though not the greatest option there is even the support thread on the boards where he could have requested his room on Maze be closed.

Bottom line... it is the sneaking off without word that trips my trigger.

It pisses me off on a Staff level when it is done by room leaders....
It pisses me off when done by members of my room...

As I am sure it pisses others off when people just vanish only to turn up elsewhere without a word.

Alot of bullshit could be avoided by everyone if just a lil bit of this so called gorean honor and honesty... ideals and principles.... actually were used and communications made over comings and goings.


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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #11 on: September 16, 2008, 03:31:22 PM »
Honor.

What does that mean?

Many people post many topics wanting a learning experience and further discussions with other members of their room or other rooms to promote an educational and informative environment.

Some of the people that like to post lengthy topics or deep thoughts, love to post, as if saying..."look at me, I promote deep thoughts on the philosophy of Gor".  Bosk shit.  You can be educated.  You can call yourself a "Master".  You may even think you are a Dom in real life.  Quit fooling yourself.  You are just another schmoe sitting behind the screen living a fantasy on the virtual world of the internet.  BUT, even though people live two seperate lives, there is one common factor that can cross the rt/vt line.

Honor.

Honor has various meanings to various people.  Honor is a "way" of life, a discipline of moral advancement intended to further the formatin of a mature, balanced and integrated personality, of a man at peace with himself and in harmony with his social and his natural environment.

In Bushido, a warrior is one who has a thorough understanding of the qualities of right and wrong and knows how to do one and avoid the other.  Right and wrong are good and evil.  Plain and simple, you know your honor, you know right and wrong. 

When someone gives their word, they are expected to keep it.  Moral fiber is something people like to piss on because they think they can.  If you can wake up in the morning and look in the mirror and have no regrets from the previous day, then you are on the path to morality.  That means doing something right, even when there is no one around to see what you are doing, but you still make the right choice.

*I quirk a brow and look around*  Not many understand that something like Honor, can cross rt and vt, but it can.  People say, actions speak louder than words.  Though this may be true, none can judge your actions, only you can.  You must decide for yourself, if your actions were just and right and true, or were unfair and wrong and false.

Honor.

That is a heavy concept.  Something that you should be proud of, something to hold your head up to.  Can you hold your head up to your honor?  Do you feel pride in who you are and what you are?  Are you happy with your actions and they were just and honorable?  Walk with pride, especially if you are leader because if you call yourself a leader, then you lead by example.  If you lurk in the shadows and hide and sneak about, committing underhanded deals, then guess what those who look up to you will do?  Are you being fair to them?

I have had word prior that this issue will be dealt with in a respectful and honorable manner.  I have yet to see it resolved or that word kept.  I have seen everyone else come out of the woodwork in defense, I have not seen the originator. 

Honor.

I reiterate, a heavy concept.

Steel and Honor.

I wish you well.

Raziel of Tuchuk.

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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #12 on: September 16, 2008, 04:30:09 PM »
ok.... let me first start off by saying that I am posting this straight from my own mouth, this is Liz here.... my words my thoughs

This thread should be locked.

why? because we are only breeding more fodder for the fire.

I will not speak of the friend ship that I had with Gio or anyting from anyones personal lives. I have made my peace with Gio. that is between he and I. I said what needed said and now Ive let it go.

But this posting has to stop.

Sure there may have been drama way in the past, but see this from my eyes, I have been on maze for what... A year and a half? I was not here when all of this happened... so in my eyes it never did.... I was not here to witness it so I just really dont give a urts ass...

What I do see is...

1. A man that posted something in apparent "support" of our site....

2. A WM Staff that found out some information by readin said post.

3. A WM staff who then clarafied the situation for chatters of his site, making his peace with it all.

4. A man with a guilty karma that is posting this shit all over the place...

for my final words.... Give it up.... Everyone is entitled to their own opionin... I know how I feel.... I know what I think is right and wrong.... but I am not posting my feelings and thoughts on sites all over the place...

If Gio feels that he did no wrong, fine so be it, it will weigh heavy on his heart, not mine... and not ours... AR does not need to hear about it... PG does not need to hear about it... and now that a little time has passed and everything is said and done and everyone has made their final peace... WM no longer needs to hear about it.

Liz.

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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #13 on: September 16, 2008, 05:48:17 PM »


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Everyone is entitled to their own opionin

and opinions are like assholes...everyone has one...and as long as they keep it clean...
their posts i mean...they can continue to post.

There has been no nasty name calling...no site bashing from here...
It has come from that other one on 2 different site boards...and a few of his cohorts who came to post..
which I thank them for registering to the board to just post this thread and upping the board numbers by 3 people!...lol

I will tell you this...and it is a fact...
I met most of these folk rt and if they really wanted to unleash..my self included...
we would have to take the board down...lol

actually...this thread is quite tame to what that other person has been spouting over two different site boards...

Have a nice day/evening...









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Re: Can Only Shake My Head
« Reply #14 on: September 17, 2008, 12:09:39 AM »
Oh yes it is very tame.  Not even one mention of the word "asshat" or "Gorean douchebag" -beams brightly-